So, this semester one of my resolutions (and thus new rules) was that not only was I not going to procrastinate, but that I was going to do literally every singe assignment, and reading. Now, this may seem obvious to most people, however, I've been able to get by on just being smart for a very long time, and I haven't done all the work for a single class since freshman year of highschool, let alone all the work for ALL of my classes!!! And I thought, ok, I can totally do this! It will make everything better for me in the end. I won't have nervous breakdowns during finals and term paper time, and I will ultimately learn more (which is kinda important since I probably want to be a professor!). But I guess I just didn't realize just how much work I wasn't doing. I mean literally last semester there would be weeks when I never even looked at my syllabi. So to say that I lost a lot of my free time is an understatement.
I also seem to have lost the ability to sit. I've made this resolution countless times before, but never before has someone been there to Make me stick to it. And to punish my backside for literally every single instince of misbehavior. I'm either going to have to shape up soon, or my poor backside might just revolt!
(the pictures are from this past Halloween :) Unfortunately my bottom, as you can see is far too lily white. In case you didn't know, dorm rooms are NOT the best spanking locations!)
I can empathise. I too have the smarts to avoid doing /all/ my readings, and to maybe not do my best on /all/ my assignments. If I have a daddy by the time I'm back in school I imagine that I'll be in the same boat.
ReplyDeletePoor poor bottom.
Hmmm, a spanking in your dorm room? Wow. Kelly, your bottom is so nice, you should try harder to keep it lily white. :)
ReplyDeleteYes, if you're smart, starting in grade school, you can get into the habit of doing just enough to get by. That'll get more and more stressful as things become more demanding. There are just too many distractions and temptations, and without discipline your work isn't going to get done. Of course, you know that, but knowing and doing are two different things.
I think it's great that you know what you want and recognize what's needed. At least for some growing up, it was having a strict parent to help provide the discipline that made the difference between success and failure. There's no reason that same kind of support can't work in college if, in some ways, you're still an irresponsible teenager. Stomping your foot and thinking school sucks is your natural inclination, but you do really want to be a good student. You do really want to excel. I find that very admirable, and the way you're going about getting the help you need is the best way I can imagine. That picture of you standing in the corner says a lot about how your academic behavior is being managed, and I hope it's going to work well for you.
Thank you for sharing, Princess. I love reading how you're doing, and all your pictures are very beautiful.
Hugs,
Eric
It looks to me like this "John" guy was way to easy on your bottom considering this has been an ongoing behavior. I think you should tell him you really need him to quit being so easy on you.
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I agree with Francesca whole-heartedly. Confess that you've gotten away with these slovenly study habits for too long, bare your own butt, and ask him to punish it HARD! You know that you deserve it, Princess. Present him with your hairbrush and turn your butt over to your Daddy. Then show us pics and describe every detail of the consequence.
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I spent last night thinking (make that dreaming and jilling-off) about your situation, Kelly. I became all the more convinced that it's your behavior and attitude (foot stomp, hands on hips) that suck! Have you come clean yet, young lady? I decided that the hairbrush would be too lenient for a know-it-all little bitch who doesn't take full advantage of her expensive educational opportunities. If you were mine (and I'd love to play switch with you), I'd take you over my knee and spank you until that bubble butt glowed like a light bulb. Sufficiently sensatized, I'd made you bend over for the cane. I'd mark your lily-white tush, and sear the lesson into your head-strong mind. Only when I was sure that you were completely contrite would I relent, hold you, apply balm to your bum and kisses to your wet eyelashes. You deserve just such a lesson, Miss. I want to hear that you submissively went to your top and requested one. Soon. And we need proof in close-up pictures. Sitting shouldn't be an option for you for a while, Princess.
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Jean Marie
Doc- Yeah, sore is right. The ups and downs of having a spanker ;). And Daddy isn't the one spanking me for this, John is....I'll explain later. lol, though I'm sure once Daddy reads this, I'll be getting it from him as well.
ReplyDeleteNow go study young lady! lol ;)
Eric- Thank you so much for you in depth thoughts. Yes, I learned early on that I could either get out of things just by virtue of being incredibly bright, or because I was amazing at debating, and I can talk my way out of just about anything. I actually have very stict parents though, although they didn't spank. And when I in grade school I was incredibly dilegent and focused. As I got older though, I realized how much stuff I could get away with not doing, as long as I still excelled. It definitely caused me stress, and I did get in trouble a few times, but it caused some very bad habits. Its never been a problem (I got into my dream school, was at the top of my class, got perfect scores on my tests) until college, where there is NO structure. My mother isn't harping at me constantly (which while i ignored her, was moderately effective), teachers don't give daily assignments, and its just so easy to get behind in a way that smarts and talking can't save you.
So yes, I am very lucky to have found discipline that I need and crave. And this sememster especially (with the constant enforcement) it is really having an impact. I'm glad that you like reading my blog, and I'm so happy that you like the pics too! :) Hope to hear from you again.
Francesca- Grrr.... *yells full name* don't you dare try to get me in trouble young lady! You know darn good and well that John doesn't go easy on me, and don't you go playing innocent on me. I can see that bratty little smirk. I'm going to tell on you!
Jean Marie- wow. hm. ok. where to begin. First, ignore Francesca. She's my bff from home, not a spanko, and is just being a brat and trying to get me in trouble. :) lol. Also, Daddy is not the one spanking me for these offenses (atleast not the one I was refering to, who is doing it on a regular basis), though he will end up punishing me as well.
I actually have told both John and Daddy all of these things, and more, which is why the new rules and punishments are in place. I have gotten spanked very thoroughly (with a hairbrush and more) for the infractures. Actually, the other day, John spanked me for all of my past offenses back in high school! lol. There was role play...I think I'll post about it, it was just too good to pass up.
Now, on to your next post. *blush* I am very flattered that I could be part of your fantasy, and switching with you would be lots of fun I'm sure (and I've never been caned before). However, I do not appreciate being called a bitch. A brat I am, and on occasion a bitch, but that is not something nice to say. And I have a feeling that that kind of language might get you spanked!
Now, I am going to be spanked for all of my infractions very soon, and in fact I have 2 very serious spankings (read: bathbrush) coming up for a lie I told and trying to manipulate John. And I will definitely post about those. I just posted some pictures a couple posts back, that will have to tide you over until I finish my homework and can get back on here. Thank so much for your comments, I always like reading them.
xoxo
Princess Kelly
Dear Kelly,
ReplyDeleteYou are right and I was wrong. I got carried away hearing about how you are squandering your opportunity of a well-rounded education. The school teacher in me got ranting and got the best of me. You are a brat; you are not a bitch. Your words put me in my place very well, however, if you want to role-play and put me over your knee, I'd accept that. The submissive in me would thrill to it, the bi-curious shy little girl wouldn't be able to do anything but obey. Please apply yourself in school. Please apply a tongue-lashing and/or hairbrush thrashing if I get uppity.
Warmly,
Jean Marie
In school uniform and all. I can't wait for your school's prom. :-) (Take it as as a compliment, not as a sleazy demand/request.)
ReplyDeleteI recall my own college days and it seemed to me then that most of the girls I knew were lazy students who could have really benefited from some consistent over-the-knee, bare bottom "daddy attention" - and skirts-up, panties down corner time too. You're never too old to learn that actions have consequences and when you get your grades, and see the improvement, you will know who to thank.
ReplyDeleteJean Marie- :) Don't worry about it sweetie. We all get carried away sometimes. And I will remember that offer if for some reason you happen to lose your temper here again. And in return I promise to try to do a better job focusing in school, I do know how important it is. I think I want to teach someday as well. :)
ReplyDeleteAnonymous- LMAO- I do take it as a request. Unfortunately, for the time being, as my newest post says there are no more pictures. :( I know, I'm as sad as the next person, but I still hope that you make it back here.
Anonymous- I completely agree with everything you said. :) There are definitely quite a few girls just on my floor that could use a good hiding- though most of them for things other than grades. If I could go back to my high school though, I would truly love to redden the backsides of the naughty girls that I tutored and stick them in a corner with their bare bottoms on display.
I hope to see you back here again. Thank you so much for you comment :)
xoxo
Princess Kelly
Kelly: The ban was on naked/half-naked/sexual pictures only, no? :-) (And sure, I'll make it back.)
ReplyDeleteWhile I don't want to be an enabler of any poor behavior you are trying to change, do remember it is OK to prioritize your assignments and "skim" some of your readings. I'm not saying skip things or procrastinate, though! Keeping on top of your work can definitely reduce your stress and improve your comprehension. You should still be proud of doing well in school so far! It's easy to forget sometimes that not everyone could even make it in college, especially at a school like yours. I can definitely understand setting personal goals for yourself other than grades, and really wanting to learn and retain what you are studying. I just graduated with my biology degree last month. Good luck to you, Kelly! Don't burn yourself out!
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