Monday, September 21, 2009

She's Gone.

I dont' know what to do. I've never lost someone before.
I can't do this.


  1. I am very sorry to here about your loss. I am going threww a simular situation.
    We have never chatted before My name is fred
    and you can emaile me at
    Keep your head up and know shes in a better place I lost my mother to leukemia several months ago
    Pain will go away but the love should never die

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  3. I don't know. I accidently deleted my comment. So I write again.

    Dear Kelley
    I found your blog while wandering over the Internet. I'm so sorry for your loss. If I were near you I would give you a hug, but I'm just a stranger and for now all I can do is to send you my regret. It's a very heavy burden for a person in your age to deal with. Cheer up though. And try hot to take alcohol or any drugs. They usually mess up more. It's darkest before the dawn. Everything will be okay soon. And I also hope you and your sister get better.

  4. Wooooowww....I'm so sorry Kelley. Life can be so cruel sometimes.

    You CAN do this. Breathe in. Breathe out. Just keep swimming, but don't be afraid to grieve.


  5. Kelley,

    My heart goes out to you and to everyone in your world who is hurting. Such a loss is difficult to reconcile. There's just no purpose that is served.

    Ultimately, we move on because we must, but until then, please take some time to quietly celebrate a life that had meaning for you and for many others.

    May the sun shine brightly just for you one day soon.

    Big hugs,

  6. So sorry to hear this. You have my sympathy, and I'm sure that of the many people who have read the blog. Take care. A

  7. Oh Kelley I am so sorry,I know it hurts and it ALWAYS will,but it will lessen over time. That old cliche is true the time heals all wounds,but not completely. Somebody you love is gone,but the love is STILL there. Always will be there. Take the time you need and gather those that love you around you.

  8. I'm very sorry for your loss. Please accept my sincere condolences. Try to remember the good times.


  9. Words are inadequate. So sorry for your loss, Kelley. I'm wishing you the strength for these difficult times.

    Many hugs,

  10. Kelley, I just saw this. I am so sorry this happened to you and the others close to you.

  11. Kelley-

    I know that your heart is breaking at this moment, and I truely understand your loss. I lost my Mom, my best friend a year ago to lung cancer. She held on and fought till she couldn't do that anymore. These first weeks are the hardest, so pull your loved ones in close and greive your devastaing loss. For no matter what might have said- or didn't get a chance to say your Mom loved you will all her heart and she knew you loved her.

    Hold on tight to those wonderful memories and don't play the I should have game it will only tear you apart.


  12. Kelley,,,,Sorry for you lost,,,,and its hard when we lose someone..But do not blame yourself,,,,by saying i should have been there,,,,well from what i was you were just there,,,,and had a good visit,,,You have to go forward and remember the good times and remember her during those times,,,Cause even though her earthly body is gone she will always be with you,,,So just take it slow and remember the good times,,,,and go forward


  13. Kelley,

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I've always thought that the memory of people and the real imprint that they leave on your life is the most tangible way to show that they are in some way still with you.

    I hope after the grief subsides a bit, that her memory will always bring a smile to your face!


  14. Hey ya'll-

    So I read all of these as they came, and each and everyone touched my heart and helped me take a breath when I felt like I couldn't come up for air. I won't respond to each individually b/c I would be saying the same thing over and over, but I can't tell you how much I love each and every one of you and how grateful I am for your words and your support. I'm sorry that it has taken me so long to get on my feet enough to say that, but I'm here now, and I hope that you will accept my apologies and my gratitude.

    Mommy is always with me- when I lay really still I can feel her hold me and hear her words. I know what she'd expect from me and I'm trying to be a good little girl for her. Each day is hard but each day is easier- and I'm in a much better place than I was 3 weeks ago.
    So, Fred, Hanna, Ohio, Bonnie, A, Scunge, Hermonie, Anonymous, Dana, Jean, Angela, Mike, and Dave THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart (and lol, I guess from my bottom too ;)) for everything. Ya'll rock. And I hope that if there is ever a moment (which I pray there is not) that you need me, that I will be as good a friend to you.

    Princess Kelley